NEGATIVE BELIEFS REALLY CAN FALL AWAY WITH EASE
I had no idea when I embarked upon this Soul Level Intuitive Coaching® journey that there was such a thing as effortless change. I'd been brought up to believe that hard work was required for anything of value to be achieved. There may have even been a need for some struggle or pain to be involved. So you can imagine my surprise when I started realizing that hard and fast beliefs I've carried with me all of my life were just kind of vanishing.
I'd become so used to reacting in a particular way that I was doing the same old thing out of habit. I was on autopilot. But through this work I started becoming more aware of what drives my choices and behaviors. And I started realizing that some of my autopilot reactions no longer felt right.
For example, for years I've wanted to make some changes to my house. I'd get excited and start planning and then one of two things would happen. I'd either convince myself that spending the money wasn't a good idea or if I got excited enough to really want to move forward I would talk to others about it and I'd be told why it wasn't a good idea. And once someone else disapproved or even questioned anything about it the door was slammed shut on my planning. I believed that they must know better than me.
This was a pattern that served me quite well for a long time. I didn't have to take any risks and I got people's approval for being "smart" about money. I had no intention of changing this. But one day I found myself exploring the idea of another home improvement project. I did my usual research and managed to convince myself that it was doable. So I moved onto phase two, tell the person who will shoot it down. Which I did. And the idea was shot down. Phew! That was a close one!
But then something crazy happened. I heard myself explaining the benefits of the project, how the money would work and that it was something I wanted to do. And there it was. A pile of negative beliefs about financial security, or what will happen if I disagree with people, or about making "the wrong decision" all lay scattered on the ground around me. And I'll admit that on the inside I was tempted to look around and see who it was that was saying all of these empowered and confident words because I didn't know where they were coming from and I wasn't trying to force myself to stand up for something. I was just changed.
I know that this shift is a product of the Soul Level Intuitive Coaching® work I've done. I didn't sit down and decide to work on standing in my power and speaking up for what I want. I didn't set out to stop myself from seeking outside approval. I just did the work on my negative beliefs with my guides and shift happened. And it continues to happen long after the initial work is done. And each time a negative belief shifts, my spirit does a little happy dance as I recognize the soul growth taking place. And a weight is lifted off of me, allowing me to move through life with more freedom and ease than ever before.
